It occurred to me that I had not actually decided on a gender.
I mean, I sort of just assigned "him" to P and "her" to Q
but in my brain, they were both actually gender neutral.
Not that it would matter, in the state of New York, at least.
I got engaged over the holidays.
And I love my person.
And I'm excited to get married.
My slutty college phase was clearly not slutty enough.